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A visit to a Paed/doctor's clinic with my 4-year-old daughter brought me closer to a pearl of new philosophical wisdom. As I was waiting for my turn, my eyes caught attention over “Garbha Sanskar "(Which means educating the child’s mind inside the womb) pamphlet stuck up on the clinics slightly rustic board. The pamphlet had all the fetal developmental pictures on it. How amazing it is! The greatest architect of the Universe has designed a wonderful place for humans to spend their initial years in the safest of safest place. And yeah! It’s none other than the womb. A much-secured place with all the facilities inbuilt, where an offspring is conceived and gestation takes place before delivery. It’s a wonderful God’s creation. Image by ColiN00B on Pixabay An occurrence of a baby inside the amniotic sac itself is miraculous.That’s when my imagination went to another level - A fetus inside an amniotic sac resembles a bulb so closely. It's inside the amniotic sac ...

(pic courtesy :Image by GraphicMama-team on Pixabay) The list just goes on with comments for girls wearing glasses. "Oh she looks icky", "God she is damn studious but not a girlfriend type". Normally a girl without specs is chosen over a girl with specs for a marriage and thats how conventionally choices are made. I always wondered why a simple girl wearing spectacles in a movie is moved to contact lenses the moment a more sexier and modern character has to be portrayed. Well people need to give a second thought,if they are of the opinion that girls look less hot and less approachable in specs. Personally i feel it makes a woman with glasses stand out from the rest of the crowd. Hell with the traditional thought pattern , girls or woman whoever it is must stop undermining themselves for any choices they make. It's not up to the people but it is you who can make the change in yourself.Remember you are not here to please anyone's perception....

Basic in New world of  "Being Mommy" Motherhood is one of the most beautiful phase of woman's life to be cherished. The phase goes through three trimesters if its going to be a full term pregnancy. Being a mother for the first time, everyone right from my husband, my mother in law , my father in law all were over concerned which sometimes would never make me feel good at all. The first trimester being the most tiresome, dealing with the morning sickness, feeling tired all the time.The nausea and vomiting of pregnancy, for me, lasted for almost 9 months.It would be like hitting me on my head when my office colleague all the time kept giving me advise and her opinion about pregnancy as being the most loved time. I would wonder why I felt so upset till the end of the trimester that I hardly felt like talking to or going to places. I followed my doctor with whatever she asked me to do and also listened to my heart. Many advises kept popping up about do's and...

Finding True love   Since my teenage years until today, being a human, I have been in, fallen in, and encountered with these four-lettered "LOVE" many a time. We often come across beautiful quotes like " Love is Glorious", "Love is God".Have u wondered what love is or should be?. Everyone has a different perspective on life and love. Here's what I felt and penned down my thoughts.        During my school and college days, Love as per my knowledge was limited only to a boy and girl who meet, date, laugh together, share some of the most unforgettable moments. Then as I grew up, I realized there is that other side to some stories too, some start feeling something missing between them after spending a great time with each other. Some may find sexual obsession has come to an end. The chemistry has somehow diluted due to the imbalance of some elements (people often search for chemistry and its quite natural, and rightly said chemistry is the use of re...

K - Knowledge          Going back to the school days, I remember my duty as board monitor being cleaning the board and writing new proverb or good quotes each day  One of the most popular and common was "Knowledge is Power" its frequency to flash on the board was the highest i.e after every fortnight ,being the smallest and easiest one to remember.  Though I loved the proverb very much ,it took time for me to realize the value and importance of the lines . True power lies in knowledge and not in physical strength. No one can defeat you if you  have proper knowledge of any subject. There's no time limit for acquiring it.       Most of us normally confuse and consider Education and knowledge as similar terms. When I finished my college and got degree I realized education and knowledge are totally different. Being a commerce student and post graduate , I hated accounts like anything . The reason was I had no in depth knowle...

J - Jealousy      Right from young age we are taught to be cautioned dealing with six passions that are; lust (Kaam),anger(Krodh), greed(lobh), attachment (moh) ,pride (mada) and envy or jealousy (matsarya) as they might lead us to hell. But the divine knowledge or brainy quotes are limited only to books for most of us as we come across so many people with different nature and thinking process that we allow ourselves get entangled into so many unconforming moral values. In my opinion , Jealousy is one such emotion no one can escape, almost everyone experiences it at some stage of their life.It is one of those conflicts which ends relationship.It can arise out of insecurity or fear of anyone or anything; sibling conflict, in friendships , colleagues conflict, husband-wife conflict,mother in law daughter in law conflict,. Its a killer in real sense. When there is jealousy amongst siblings there are attempts to impress or seek either of our parents at...