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New in Mommy World

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Basic in New world of  "Being Mommy" Motherhood is one of the most beautiful phase of woman's life to be cherished. The phase goes through three trimesters if its going to be a full term pregnancy. Being a mother for the first time, everyone right from my husband, my mother in law , my father in law all were over concerned which sometimes would never make me feel good at all. The first trimester being the most tiresome, dealing with the morning sickness, feeling tired all the time.The nausea and vomiting of pregnancy, for me, lasted for almost 9 months.It would be like hitting me on my head when my office colleague all the time kept giving me advise and her opinion about pregnancy as being the most loved time. I would wonder why I felt so upset till the end of the trimester that I hardly felt like talking to or going to places. I followed my doctor with whatever she asked me to do and also listened to my heart. Many advises kept popping up about do's and...

Love Vs Spirituality in Love

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Finding True love   Since my teenage years until today, being a human, I have been in, fallen in, and encountered with these four-lettered "LOVE" many a time. We often come across beautiful quotes like " Love is Glorious", "Love is God".Have u wondered what love is or should be?. Everyone has a different perspective on life and love. Here's what I felt and penned down my thoughts.        During my school and college days, Love as per my knowledge was limited only to a boy and girl who meet, date, laugh together, share some of the most unforgettable moments. Then as I grew up, I realized there is that other side to some stories too, some start feeling something missing between them after spending a great time with each other. Some may find sexual obsession has come to an end. The chemistry has somehow diluted due to the imbalance of some elements (people often search for chemistry and its quite natural, and rightly said chemistry is the use of re...

K - Knowledge

K - Knowledge          Going back to the school days, I remember my duty as board monitor being cleaning the board and writing new proverb or good quotes each day  One of the most popular and common was "Knowledge is Power" its frequency to flash on the board was the highest i.e after every fortnight ,being the smallest and easiest one to remember.  Though I loved the proverb very much ,it took time for me to realize the value and importance of the lines . True power lies in knowledge and not in physical strength. No one can defeat you if you  have proper knowledge of any subject. There's no time limit for acquiring it.       Most of us normally confuse and consider Education and knowledge as similar terms. When I finished my college and got degree I realized education and knowledge are totally different. Being a commerce student and post graduate , I hated accounts like anything . The reason was I had no in depth knowle...

J - Jealousy

J - Jealousy      Right from young age we are taught to be cautioned dealing with six passions that are; lust (Kaam),anger(Krodh), greed(lobh), attachment (moh) ,pride (mada) and envy or jealousy (matsarya) as they might lead us to hell. But the divine knowledge or brainy quotes are limited only to books for most of us as we come across so many people with different nature and thinking process that we allow ourselves get entangled into so many unconforming moral values. In my opinion , Jealousy is one such emotion no one can escape, almost everyone experiences it at some stage of their life.It is one of those conflicts which ends relationship.It can arise out of insecurity or fear of anyone or anything; sibling conflict, in friendships , colleagues conflict, husband-wife conflict,mother in law daughter in law conflict,. Its a killer in real sense. When there is jealousy amongst siblings there are attempts to impress or seek either of our parents at...

Being Happy

Being Happy What is happiness? Being happy is all in our state of mind.Its very easy to put up words together and go on writing, advising people on happiness. Believe me it all starts with us and ends with us. Happiness is felt when both our mental & physical state releases positivity & contentment within us. We come across "happiness lies within us" quote almost in every talk, lecture or article. Often we come across people who are emotionally shattered that they start believing happiness never seeks them rather it lies or dupes them all the time.  Do you believe happiness really deceives u, or its the other way we are unable to seek it? what actually happiness is? Where does it lies? How do we seek it?  Many events in our life are unavoidable, however positive we may act towards life we are bound to face rejections, obstacles, heartbreaks, total societal isolation  etc and gradually our positive attitude gets diverted towards negativity....

You !!!!

You Awakened my life within with the reviving shining with the hopes flushing in and out'and out adn out My heart could see With the hurts hurting with the flurry you moving, Why I suffer? Why I revere? Why I fluster? Why cant it ever> Ever Ever Ever.......... You be My forever......... And as am surpassing Now my life's awakening me' My heart could see not u But out and out me Without "You"

Walking By !!!!!!

"Walking by my Life's Street I remember my past treat Those memories and sceneries gathers deep in my arteries Years after years, I spilled out my tears, Oh dear... Losing you was my only fear And walking by my Life I realized U were never, never near, And When I cried and as I cry, I descry Someone far there and Walking near Is that U or May Be Someone NEW....!!!!!!" The poem above sounds to be bit filmy but it has a story behind it when I started scribbling and putting words  with some emotion in it together on my newly bought mobile (which  has some really good hi tech features of making notes).  It started as ,  Earlier this week I thought of taking my daughter to a new place wherein you can let go of your lil ones  to play around without worrying about.As my daughter left me alone for some time , playing with one of the friend she made , I got some "me"time to surf on the internet ,chat on the famous known social media site with my ...